How To Get More From Him

As a woman, it’s in your nature to give. To contribute and support your loved ones.

But sometimes, you feel unappreciated. It’s like you’re giving more and getting less. Sometimes it’s easier to blame him – but that rarely solves the problem.

You may expect him to even the odds. But he may not even realize you’re hurting.

The best solution is to set and respect limits. 

Men give more when women set limits. You must be assertive: clearly tell him what you want. Sometimes, women expect their men to intuitively know what they (women) want.

The problem with this is that men are not designed that way. You must state what you want.

Be careful. Fear may prevent you from setting limits. Most women fear, rejection, judgement and abandonment. They believe they’re not worthy – and that’s not true.

Maybe they’ve been abused, rejected or neglected in the past.

Now they’ve turned this experiences into believe and locked it deep inside them. They may start believing that they’re unworthy of love and support.

These believe can sabotage you. And mind you, it’s just a believe – not the reality on ground.

That’s why most women express “neediness” instead of “need.”

The difference?

Neediness is when you express your need desperately because you don’t trust that you will get it.

In a man’s mind, this behavior means that you don’t trust HIM to give you what you want. He doesn’t understand that you behave that way because you fear his rejection.

Instead, he feels rejected and unappreciated. That’s why he pushes you away (psychologically).

Need is when you openly reach out and ask for support in a trusting manner: one that assumes that he will do his best.

This empowers him and makes him feel trusted.

Remember that men are turned on when they feel needed, but turned off by neediness.

Most women marvel at the transformation they see when they set limits. It’s counter intuitive but it works.

Most women don’t give their opinion. Some say they don’t want to hurt him.

So they keep things to themselves while their men never get to find out. Over time this builds up as accumulated resentment and start causing damages.

You need to be authentic. Be yourself but be polite and respectful. Yes. You will not always agree but by keeping quiet, you may be building the foundation for your relationship’s failure.

The next time your man has an opinion or idea that’s different for yours, politely but firmly state your own opinion.

Be open to his ideas, but realize you do not have to accept them for your own.

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